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Hong My then invited me to his home in Hanoi. I had already planned to fly to Hanoi the next day, so he changed his airline reservation to fly with me. With my former adversary by my side, we flew over the same countryside where I had flown so many combat missions.
After I checked into my hotel we walked to Hong My's home through the streets of Hanoi, passing the beautiful old French Opera House and dodging motor scooters. I was introduced to his son, Quan, his wife, Giang, and grandson, Duc, who was celebrating his first birthday. Hong My was holding Duc, and as I came close, the little boy reached out to me. And then, Hong My placed Duc in my arms. I couldn't help thinking that had things gone differently in the sky that day 36 years ago, Duc wouldn't have been here for me to hold.
After a wonderful Vietnamese dinner, Hong My offered to take me back to the hotel on his motor scooter. (Everyone in Vietnam has a scooter.) We zipped through the streets of Hanoi, the MiG pilot and the F-4 pilot, laughing, dodging traffic, and having a grand old time.
The next day, Hong My was my tour guide. We went to every museum, war memorial, and tourist attraction, including the "Hanoi Hilton." Hoa Lo Prison, now a museum, was built by the French at the turn of the century, when Vietnam was a French colony. Most of the exhibits are about the French imprisoning Vietnamese citizens who had fought for independence, but a few showed American POWs during their incarcerations.
Usually gregarious and outgoing, Hong My turned quiet and somber. As I studied photographs of American POWs, he whispered, "Did you have friends in here?" I pointed to a picture of Colonel John Flynn. "He is my friend." Hong My lowered his eyes and shook his head.
As we emerged, I was overwhelmed with sorrow. Hong My put his arm consolingly around my shoulder and patted me on the back. On the street in front of the infamous POW jail, my enemy had become a true friend.
Dan Cherry served with the U.S. Air Force for 29 years, during which he commanded the Eighth Tactical Fighter Wing and the Thunderbirds, and flew 295 combat missions during the Vietnam War. He retired with the rank of brigadier general. To purchase his just-published book, send a check for $25 to Aviation Heritage Park, My Enemy My Friend, P.O. Box 1526, Bowling Green, KY 42102-1526. Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center on April 27.


Comments
We are overwhelmed with pride for our brother- in-law, Dan. He not only is our pride and joy, but our hero. He lives a life of true adventure and yet, remains a soul at peace in every way. We are so proud of him and wish him every success with his wonderful book. Dick and Sue Ellen
Posted by Richard and Sue Ellen Brooks on March 18,2009 | 06:26AM
Great story, of two (2) great men. Would love to meet them, both. Unfortunatly I will be out of town when they will be at the book signing.
Posted by Ron Fellman on March 20,2009 | 11:55AM
I just returned from Bowling Green where I happened to come across the F-4 discussed in this article. Seeing the actual plane is one thing but subsequently reading this article authored by the pilot and learning the history behind it and about the recent reunion between the fighter pilots was a great surprise. My pictures suddenly seem more meaningful. Great story.
Posted by James Cizdziel on March 23,2009 | 11:55PM
Brought back memories! I was stationed at Udorn from March '71 til March '72. I was assigned as a AWC in the ABCCC Sauadron and flew night missions over Laos. I may have communicated over the radio with Dan Cherry or his GIB during that time. We also participated in celebrations at the Officer's Club after our fighter bretheren returned form spectacular mission like this. Sometimes, the celebrations were still ongoing when we landed at 05:30 in the morning. I especially remember this happening after a F-4 pilot was rescued by the "Jolly Green" guys and I had gone to the club for breakfast after my mission debriefing. Thanks for your contributions to our AF and our country Dan Cherry!
Posted by Boyd Nix, Col. USAF (Ret.) on March 24,2009 | 07:11AM
Our family of six are looking forward to the lecture and book signing on April 28th! What a meaningful story and an exciting way for our children to connect with history! I have not been successful in finding the book to buy so that we can read it with the children prior to the lecture. Any suggestions would be appreciated. EDITORS' REPLY: Have you tried the Smithsonian shops, at 202-357-1387? Alternately, try www.amazon.com
Posted by C. Forry on April 14,2009 | 10:34AM
To purchase his just-published book, send a check for $25 to Aviation Heritage Park, My Enemy My Friend, P.O. Box 1526, Bowling Green, KY 42102-1526.
Posted by Pat Trenner on April 15,2009 | 09:47AM
had the pleasure of greeting Dan, whom I've known for about 7 years, and Hong My when they visited our Kentucky Dept.of Aviation here in Frankfort on April 17th.They flew up from Bowling Green in Dan's Cessna Skyhawk.We ate at a local Mexican restaurant; toured the capital and then visited the Vietnam Memorial.To see the interaction between these two former foes was something to behold.Hong My was a friendly and courteous guest and enjoyed the afternoon.What a truly remarkable tale of reconciliation.A story for the ages!
Posted by winn turney on April 27,2009 | 10:33AM
I know alot about the air war over North Vietnam. This Vietnamese pilot said that he shot down a F-4 Phantom a couple months before he was shot down on April 16, 1972.i know every plane shot down by US planes and MiGs. I saw no kill of a F-4 Phantom with this guy's name. I hope someone can help me with this mystery of mine.
Posted by JASON SHUSTER on May 11,2009 | 08:19PM
I was an AF nurse stationed at Udorn and celebrated at the Officers Club the day Dan claimed his MIG. What a true hero fighting for our country. His story of reconciliation is the Dan Cherry I and my fellow officers knew...professional through and through. Congratulations, Dan, from Mike and me! Last saw you when you flew the Thunderbirds into Dallas when our son was a baby!
Posted by Pat McCoy Moore on June 13,2009 | 05:49AM
This morning in church, our priest told the story of the two men and the book that was written, My Enemy My Friend. I will be reading it.
Posted by Laurie Lyon on September 6,2009 | 12:51PM
Must have been at the same church in Florida. I too will be reading this book.
Posted by Paula Davenport on September 8,2009 | 04:49PM
I was a pilot GIB in the 558th TFS, 12th TFW, Cam Ranh AB, SVN from March 1969 to March 1970. Fred Olmstead flew in my squadron for a short time before being transferred to Korea. I knew he shot down a Mig from Udorn but didn't know the history until I saw The Military Channel show "Dogfights" which covered the event. After the conflict, Fred flew for American Airlines.
Posted by Ron Gibbs on November 1,2009 | 05:17AM